We are eager to find the first path that seems to go directly to the center. Then we will definitely ran into a dead end. We re-trace and start to walk again because there is nowhere else to go. It seems to get closer and closer to the center, yet We got no where again. We start to get frustrated and wonder if we ever will find a path to the center. At this moment, the only way is to keep going no matter how uncertain and how long it will take. We courageously walk again without immediate expectation and follow wherever the path take us. Before we know it, we are lead to the very center that we so eagerly seek ! This is the very path of Self Actualization!